Partners Bonding with Baby
Partners bonding with their babies is one of the most beautiful moments in the life of a new family. This is an important time for both the parents and their newborn, as the relationship between the two will determine the child’s physical and emotional development for life.
The best way to bond with your newborn baby is by providing quality time together. This means spending time focused on the baby, not on other tasks or distractions. This could be playing, talking, singing, reading, or just cuddling. It’s even better if your partner can spend some skin-to-skin time with the baby!
It is important to recognize that your baby is an individual person and you can create special moments through eye contact, touching, kissing, and smiling. This time of bonding can also help parents with the transition to parenthood. It can be an overwhelming time with many changes, but the moments parents spend with their newborn baby can be calming. It can help parents to slow down and recognize the joy and importance of their new role as parents.
It is also beneficial for the baby to recognize their parents’ faces and voices from early on. Studies have shown that babies who are bonded with their parents in the early months are more secure and develop better social skills.
Partners bonding with their babies helps to create a sense of trust in the family. Newborns rely on their parents to provide love, security, and 100% of their care, so it is important for parents to create an environment of trust and safety for their children. As an extra bonus, snuggling and bonding with baby fosters the release of oxytocin-the love & bonding hormone-in both males AND females!
Jodi Graves, M.S., CD, CBE
Jodi is a certified birth & postpartum doula and nutritionist and has been serving families of SE Michigan for over 26 years.
Jodi is the founding owner & CEO of Michigan Family Doulas, an agency dedicated to helping families thrive in their transition into parenthood. MFD has nearly 80 years of combined experience in all aspects of birth & postpartum recovery, postpartum nutrition and infant care in families of all shapes and sizes.