Top 7 Holiday Gifts to NEVER Buy a Newborn Baby or a New Mother
The holiday season is upon us, and while it’s a time for giving, not all gifts are created equal—especially when it comes to newborns and new mothers. At Michigan Family Doulas, we’ve seen it all, and we’re here to help you avoid some common gifting pitfalls. Here’s a lighthearted look at the top holiday gifts you should definitely steer clear of for the newest members of the family.
1. Noisy Toys with No Off Switch
Imagine this: a toy that plays the same jingle on repeat, with no way to turn it off. Sounds like a nightmare, right? Newborns need peace and quiet, and new parents need their sanity. So, unless you want to be the reason for a sleepless night, avoid those noisy toys.
Better Alternative: Soft, silent plush toys or a gentle white noise machine.
2. Complicated Baby Outfits
Sure, that three-piece baby tuxedo is adorable, but new parents barely have time to change their own clothes, let alone wrestle a squirming baby into a mini suit. Keep it simple and practical.
Better Alternative: Easy-to-wear onesies with snap closures or zipper pajamas.
3. Scented Lotions and Perfumes
Newborns have incredibly sensitive skin, and new moms might be sensitive to strong smells. Scented lotions and perfumes can cause irritation or allergic reactions. Plus, babies smell amazing just as they are!
Better Alternative: Fragrance-free, hypoallergenic baby skincare products.
4. Anything That Requires Assembly
New parents are already sleep-deprived and overwhelmed. The last thing they need is a gift that comes with a 50-page instruction manual and a bag of tiny screws. If it requires more than two steps to set up, it’s a no-go.
Better Alternative: Pre-assembled baby gear or a gift card to a baby store.
5. Diet Books or Exercise Equipment
While the intention might be good, gifting a new mom diet books or exercise equipment can come off as insensitive. New moms need support and encouragement, not pressure to bounce back to their pre-pregnancy bodies.
Better Alternative: A spa gift certificate, a cozy robe, or a subscription to a meal delivery service.
6. Tiny Shoes
Yes, baby shoes are adorable, but let’s be real—newborns don’t walk. Those tiny shoes will likely end up as a cute decoration rather than a practical item. Save the shoes for when the baby is actually walking.
Better Alternative: Soft booties or socks to keep those tiny toes warm.
7. Pets
Surprising a new family with a pet might seem like a great idea, but adding a furry friend to the mix can be overwhelming. New parents have their hands full with the baby, and a new pet requires a lot of attention and care.
Better Alternative: A donation to a local animal shelter in the family’s name or a pet-themed baby book.
At Michigan Family Doulas, we believe in thoughtful, practical gifts that make life easier for new parents and their babies. This holiday season, choose gifts that bring joy and comfort, not stress and confusion. Consider the gift of doula and purchase a gift card! Happy Holidays from all of us at MFD! 🎄
